Here are some thoughts about what constitutes high quality dialogue. Consider using them in your next meeting, class, or everyday discussion to evaluate the quality of the dialogue.


#1. Responses show an honest expression of one's own opinion

- Participants express their own opinion rather than talking about "them" or in universal truths
- Participants relate a similar feeling or story to what has been said
- Participants state different opinions in a non-threatening way


#2. Responses show empathetic and attentive listening

- Participants paraphrase the others point of view
- Participants ask clarifying questions
- Participants make statements recognizing the feelings of the other


#3. Responses show an effort to understand the other

- Participants respond to others insights with questions, agreements or respectful disagreements
- Participants do not try to convince others to change their point of view


#4. Responses show willingness to be transformed by the experience

-Participants state what they have learned from others
-Participants acknowledge any changes in their points of view
-Participants identify their own assumptions